I'm watching Top Chef Masters and the band guy being wow'd says, "In a Restaurant in Japan, I sat next to a woman who was literally crying after every bite of steak, because it was so amazing. “

I, with doubt and flash on fear in my heart… I think....   I sooo hope so …. I so hope that IS why she cried.

… Which is immediately followed by the the self-acknowledgment that it is ONLY because of MY life experiences that I think this way…
there Are people who don’t….
and it would be a better world if no one did.

In that flash...I thought...   that maybe...  she cried because at that moment she was sooo intensely sad…

I know she could be…
Sitting in an elegant restaurant, dressed beautifully, looking like she has it all going on,
but…..
there are tears are streaming down her face (she is fighting to hold them back) as ‘her guy' sits across the table from her... destroying her in a whisper.

Please use this note to remember to...

Be kinder than necessary… you never know the hell someone else is going through… at their own hand, the hand of another or circumstances beyond control… there is much pain and strife in the world… reach out with kindness first…

Don't be sad. I am healing. I recognized my dark thought and dispelled it. I will win. I was born happy ;)